First it's not your place to decide who can be friends with anyone other than yourself. You have not right to tell one person not to be friends with someone else.

Second your telling is confusing because I'm not sure who wants to be friends or who doesn't want to be friends regarding the way Bobby treated your friend. Waving a condom and asking for head outside an established intimate relationship is disrespectful--not that it isn't done as you describe in many social circles--but if someone is offended by being treated that way, in my opinion they have good reason to be.

As for refraining from saying something hurtful in a situation where the other person is doing you a favor such as driving you home seems appropriate to me. One has no obligation to tell someone what they're thinking even if it concerns that person.

You asked me why so many people comment in my journal. Your comment was left on a page that with an entry which wasn't very interesting--I put it there only to let readers know that I was still around although not actively writing very much right now. The reason I believe people read my diary is because I often deal with ideas rather than detailing events from moment to moment in my life. I would never write about going to McDonalds unless it had some relevance to the general topic being discussed--whether it's about dieting or being obsessed with a particular set of Happy Meal prizes. I try to consider what my readers will find interesting before I write. Somedays my life is not interesting and at such times I find it to my advantage to say nothing. [NightListener]